Sex . . .
In society, we are long past the “don’t talk about it” part of
sex. The problem now is that it’s
fanaticized, falsified, exaggerated and dehumanized. God has given to man the greatest power he
has- that of procreation- and Satan has taken the opportunity to make light of
it, to flaunt it and to destroy its sanctity.
It’s time we brought happiness back into the privacy of the bedroom.
According to S.E. Brotherson’s “Fulfilling the Sexual
Stewardship in Marriage” it is okay to read about sex and it’s okay to talk
about sex. It’s neither unmentionable
nor sordid, but as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints,
we sometimes look at it that way.
Consider these scriptures within the context of marital
intimacy.
“The glory of God
is intelligence, or, in other words, light and truth” (D&C 93:36),
and “Pure knowledge … shall greatly enlarge the soul.” (D&C 121:42.)
“The fulness of
the earth is yours, … Yea, all things which come of the earth … are made for
the benefit and the use of man. … And it pleaseth God that he hath given all
these things unto man.” (D&C 59:16, 18, 20.)
For what doth it profit a man if a gift is
bestowed upon him, and he receive not the gift? Behold, he rejoices not in that
which is given unto him, neither rejoices in him who is the giver of the gift.
(D&C 88:33.)
And as all have not faith, seek ye diligently
and teach one another words of wisdom; yea, seek ye out of the
best books words of wisdom; seek learning, even by study and also by
faith. (D&C 88:118.)
I appreciate the sentiment expressed by S.E.
Brotherson that we have a gospel stewardship with regard to sexual intimacy in
marriage. We must improve or enhance
that which we have given, just as we have all other areas of our life. I would submit that the bedroom should be one
of the first places that we begin our work.
It is important to be willing to open ourselves up
to our spouse. We must be willing to
discuss with one another those things which would be considered inappropriate to
discuss with anyone else. We must
express ourselves in a way that is comfortable, open, and pleasing to one
another. Sexual intimacy helps reunify
our commitment to our spouse. It can be
a beautiful expression of love, commitment and unity.
When searching for knowledge and understanding on
this delicate subject, we must consider the source of our knowledge. D&C 88 reminds us to seek our learning
from the best books. Use the Spirit as
your guide when seeking for greater understanding. Study the scriptures and the words of
prophets and apostles within that context and I promise you that you will find
guidance, and your marriage will be enriched.
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